I think that it's important to stay positive and to look for the good that can come out of a bad situation. For me, the good has been that since my Dad died, I've been spending a lot more time with my family than I used to. We find it comforting to be together. Saturday we went to Sarah's for dinner and Sunday we went to my mother's. At least once a weekend I see someone from my family, and it's just nice. I know my father would be pleased to see how we are supporting each other and taking care of each other, especially my mom. I'm glad we're all in the same area of the country. For a while, some of us were scattered to the winds.